You know those viral articles that fly around Facebook with snippets of douches from dating sites that can’t handle a no? I never really believed them. I had never come across one of them; ever, likely due to myself staying near my religious roots when exploring the fish pond.
That was until Athena volunteered to reactivate her OkCupid profile and allow me access in order to take her tame profile and spice it up a bit. I had a theory.
Why hadn’t either of us come across one of these guys? I looked through her profile. Pretty tame. Her messages were from decent, down to earth guys. When a horny guy came along, he didn’t lose his mind when she said no. Simple.
I changed her “most private” message to “I learned how to kiss on a teddy bear”. (small changes first) Got fairly tame responses about wanting to be that teddy bear. The messages came frequently, and they were usually cheesy, but nothing fitting what I needed to prove my theory.
I asked Athena for a picture that showed her off more than the ones she currently had. She sent me a picture she took for work; a very naughty teacher/librarian look in black and white. Clothed, but a lot of sex appeal.
This is when things took off; messages were coming in faster than I could reply. I was afraid I wouldn’t find the guy/s I needed for this experiment before I burnt out.
That was when “Sam” came. no pun intended.
They do exist!
My point is proven.
There were men that came for her image and spent the time to find out she is into gaming or that she owned a business. The amount of those men dropped in contrast to the amount of men looking to get their dick wet. All it took was a picture to get the attention of the dogs.
These pig men don’t message women they clearly have no chance with; the fully clothed ones that offer more than a body. They seek the women that show signs of sexual deviancy. No, women aren’t completely to blame here. It’s about attention though. “Sexy” gets attention.
This is when being a feminist can’t be validated.
If you want attention, and you use your body to get it, don’t get mad when boys like this Sam show up wanting some. I am sorry ladies, I am much more feminist than my co-author and even I am ashamed of some of the ways women act. It’s shameful to women, and quite the opposite of what the feminist movement aimed for. Women are now making themselves sexual objects, and why? To attract the men you claim to hate so much.
There are women too, out there, that really want an animal, in bed, NOT one that can’t control it in public, and what is somebody you talk to online? A stranger, and by default; public. Decent women don’t advertise what they want in bed, and usually because it’s pretty wild.